If you don't prefer my heretical choices (i.e., just skip tradition altogether and if you're a carnivore go with ham or salmon or roast beef or some other meat with flavor in it), Lindsay has good tips. And, actually, having tasted roast turkey done well...
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That sounds like a good bad drink, if you know what I mean. And Dr. Pepper (alcoholic or not) made with actual sugar would be fantastic, although it's probably for.